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What love really is   (3)

  Human beings yearn for love.  It seems to be the driving force in most people’s lives…  Even when we are occupied and content with other aspects of our lives, the focus in our personal lives is love.  We need love and care from our surroundings from birth to be able to develop into well balanced adults. 

Experiencing reciprocal love is the most wonderful thing in the world.  Why is it such a basic need?  What is the true meaning of love?

 

In our previous essay we suggested that you observe the energy that makes our hearts beat and our lungs breathe, the energy that flows through everything in the universe.  The conclusion was that we all receive this neutral, nonjudgmental energy no matter what we do, think or feel… We believe that we all are parts of this universal Energy and this is the starting point for our assertions in this essay.
Without the Life Force we would cease to exist.  We are not only made of this energy… in essence, We are this energy. When it enters my being it is transformed into different kinds of energy, which we call body, mind, feelings... and love. I am the one who decide in my life, the one in charge of how to direct this energy that I am.  In other words… it is the way we think and feel that decides who we are and what we will become…

 

Do I need to be perfect to attract somebody who will love me? When I take a look around I easily find out that this is not so.  People more or less love each other the way they are….  What is it really, to be perfect?  When relationships break, it seems that we as partners cannot fulfill the expectations we place on each other, so maybe what we thought was love, wasn’t love after all?
For us, love is to be accepted exactly as we are, and to be able to accept others exactly as they are.  We think the Universal energy of absolute acceptance, which does not take sides in any conflict, but simply IS, is the true nature of love.  It is this conscious energy that resides in every one of us that gives us the ability to love fully… because we are parts of it.  The universal energy’s nature is unconditional love. This becomes clear when you observe it in ‘action’, in life, in nature...  It is the way in which we perceive who we are that blinds us from seeing and feeling this all-encompassing love. So we always long for it. Thinking that we are small and insignificant, we do not love ourselves. The energy that we waste in maintaining this disempowering thought form, plus other life negating thought forms i.e.; fears, guilt, jealousy or contempt, to name but a few, could be used for more constructive life affirming purposes.

 

Through many millennia, we humans have experienced that many of the activities we enjoyed doing were regarded as wrong, so we were punished.  Such shame and guilt was felt around these activities that we eventually became convinced that we deserved punishment.

As our thoughts are creative we started to create layer upon layer of ‘confirmation’ that we are small.  Thus we are now consistently bearing a life denying structure in our psyche, and as a result punishing ourselves repeatedly by creating situations where we experience our assumed lack of worth.  It is not the Life Force that judges us to be unworthy.  We have created those words because we live in the physical world of polarity, which contains the aspects and choices we term good and evil.  What keeps us away from loving everything and everybody unconditionally is guilt, and the deeply entrenched belief that we are unworthy of love.

 

        When we have unpleasant experiences, we quickly jump to the conclusion that we are useless, or we blame others.  I’d like to share with you how this new perspective can turn what appears to be an unpleasant experience into a positive one. What we need to understand is that all of our negative experiences are being produced by our own creative energy, by our negative subconscious thought patterns.  Thus every time we experience something negative, it is a message reflecting to us that an area within us needs our attention. This is a method by which we may start to discover what is going on in our subconscious mind. These types of experiences are gifts that can show us a pathway towards a better life.  We often repeat similar experiences many times before we realize that there is a pattern… It is important to understand that negative situations we may create are not in any way punishments, but simply signposts that can help us let go of a mode of thinking that no longer serves.

 

        Here is an example;

        "I offered my help to a group of people working with a subject for which I was well educated.  I enjoyed the work and participated gladly even though it consumed my spare time.  After two days they told me they didn’t want my participation in the group any more.  First I felt sad and angry and walked away from them, blaming them, thinking how stupid they were for not appreciating me…  Then I saw that this was an opportunity to look into my subconscious with the intent of finding the thought pattern that created this experience.  I quickly realized that this situation had revealed to me the belief that I deserved punishment for being skillful. (This was not the first time this type of situation had happened in my life!)  Thought patterns like this, which often have very old roots, can be acted out irrationally.  Now I choose to see this experience as a gift enabling me to let go of this pattern. I am the opposite of what the situation showed me, I do not deserve to be rejected, because I am in fact pure love, like the Life force is. When the thought pattern is gone I will not feel rejected any more. The people in the group had of course various interpretations of the situation.  I could see that one of them felt threatened by my skills and another felt guilty about the situation that had occurred.  They too had a golden opportunity to take a look at their subconscious patterns.  They, of course, are made of love too!"

 

        Situations like this happen between people all the time. We are each others’ teachers, interconnected through the energy of the Universe.  Being a part of one huge organism, my energies always are synchronized with everyone around me and the experiences I have, always dovetail with what people around me need to experience! This is truly fascinating to observe.

 

        To be able to settle conflicts, humanity needs to learn how our thoughts create the negative experiences appearing in our lives.  With this simple understanding we can at least stop blaming each other.  Instead we could start learning how to interpret experiences in our lives in a way that will lead us all to a peaceful coexistence.

 

        We established in the first essay that the  consists of conscious energy, as also do we. It is no longer a theory for us, but our truth. The universal Energy is not only loving you and me by being the Life Force… it is loving itself by doing so!  Herein lies the most important key for humankind today.  Loving ourselves has long been regarded as selfish and arrogant. We have learned always to focus upon others, which has in many ways led us astray.  As long as we humans feel deep inside that we are unworthy and insignificant, we will always be looking for ways to cultivate the feeling of ‘a lack of love in our lives’, looking for sources outside of ourselves to fill this gap.  We search for satisfaction in thousands of amazingly creative ways. We nurture our belief in unworthiness by constantly blaming and criticizing others. We long for a partner, we change our appearances with plastic surgery, we do sports, we eat, we don’t eat, etc…  Truth is, only you can love you the way that is needed to feel whole as a human being and thus contribute to the creation of a better world for all.

 

        As aspects of the Universal Energy we are constantly creating in our own "universe" as well as being a universal co-creators.

        To find peace, good health, happiness and prosperity we need to find a way of being in alignment with the way the Universal Energy is.  Neutral, non-judgmental, accepting and loving.  There is no such thing as being perfect when we love ourselves just the way we are.  Then we will see that everybody is perfect just the way they are and everything is perfect, just the way it is.

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