Well. The life force is a
subtle energy that works rather well also!
Why does science question if the life force is real?
Why is it interesting to ask
these questions when bringing forth the tool of the free will? It's because the
free will is the tool with which we use the life force
energy! When it comes to radio and TV sets, we have on and off buttons. When we
are dealing with Life, we have the free will.
Life is real. The life force energy
is here as a fact, actually even more real than any mobile phone...! When you
reflect on life, you can easily find that life force is at our disposal. Take a
look at this:
It gives Life to all people whatever
culture, religion, nation.
It is absolutely neutral and does
not take part in any conflict.
It accepts all our choices. Even if
we offend, steal, abuse or kill, we continue to live.
It forgives us every moment. We
constantly get blank sheets, new moments and new possibilities.
It simply IS. It has no agenda of
its own. It is an energy that allows Life to unfold.
Our
experience is: The more we use our free will to love, to be joyful, giving,
serving, grateful, to both others and ourselves, the more we get of it.
What makes it so difficult to know what to
choose? How can I know what is the direction towards ONEness?
The answer that often is given to us, is that we need to choose
from our hearts. However, what does it mean? It is a challenge,
indeed! Because even when we do what we really desire, what we
really feel like, we sometimes end up in trouble… So where does
the path go for us who want to take choices that lead us in
the right direction?
Our
patterns keep us from seeing what to choose… coming from the wounds
in our soul. They prevent us from trusting and from choosing from our hearts.
This is a challenge for all of us.
I chose the wrong direction again and again before I started to
understand. It was exactly the lack of insights that made me not
see what to choose! It was like biting my own tail…
So, what can we do to make the choices that lead to being content
with ourselves and with one another?
The Universal energy is in us all and shows us our path when we learn to
observe and interpret what happens to us through the ONE-ness
perspective. It is about training our ability to discern… What
serves us on our way to create wonderful life and a peaceful and
fair world and
what doesn’t? We can only train our discernment by practicing it! We
have to take the risk to do mistakes - that teaches us what not
to choose any more.
We have been taught a lot of things that are inevitable values
in the culture in which live. Many of those things do not serve
us any more. We have learned to pay consideration to others, not
to break agreements, not to break marriages, to be ‘decent’, to…
There is a long list of things about how we ought to behave.
What we are used to believe, often needs to be revised.
For example, if you ask me of advise to leave your partner,
the answer will be no, do your best to find ways to work it out! It
is the very best way to develop when you both are willing to work with
yourselves and with what trigger your emotions. MORE.
- And the answer would
be yes if your relationship prevents you from your own self development. If I
live in a relationship that makes me desert myself and that constantly makes me
do choices of consideration for the partner, maybe I go on because I
fear of being alone? Or maybe I do it because I think my partner
cannot manage without me?
So many things have to be taken into consideration and so many
people are involved when we do the important choices in life. My
heart has taught me this: The important thing is to be true to
yourself! Staying in a relationship that does not serve you, does
not serve your partner either! Let’s say your partner is jealous.
You always take precaution to avoid conflicts so you don’t dare to
do what you really want… You do it because you love your partner,
you might say, but actually you do them a disservice because they
won’t experience those situations that reflect their subconscious
patterns. If you let your partner decide over your life, you get
energetically imbalanced and cannot see the true picture of yourself…
and far from getting to love yourself. If you and your partner
decide to find a solution in communion, the picture changes
immediately!
What about all the choices we do every day? Take newspapers and TV,
for example. Does it serve us to follow what
happens in the world? Why do we choose to follow the news? Can
we do something actively to change the situation of today by enhancing positive
thinking and tell news media other ways of dealing with news?
Why
do we
choose to see actions movies? Debate programs?
Gradually, my ability of listening to my heart increased.
Actually, things really started to happen when I started to
observe my life and decided to be honest about my feelings. At
about the same time I made an important choice: To trust my
intuition. My insights have
grown along with letting go of pain and thought patterns.
Today, I see that many of those actions I thought I made of
love, was mixed with fear, guilt, inferiority, pain and the wish
of being seen.
After having learned how to apply
the Keys of Acceptance, the insights of how things fit together
came little by little. All the time, I have
been guided to love myself, to accept myself the way I am. I can
only encourage you to do the same. It has made me accept that
everybody else are the way they are on their path and that they are
"made of love", whatever they think about me.
For some it will take time, for others it will happen more quickly. It
depends on your will, on the path you have chosen and which
perspective you have planned for your life.
Love and Joy to all!
