The life force does not judge or punish. It does not even know what
guilt or shame is! It does not not know inadequacy or greed. It
gives of itself. It simply IS! It allows Life to unfold. This is the
clue to find our ways of living.
We, however,
carry a lot of feelings that make us feel a large number of feelings that
does not serve us. Our challenge is to find ways of how to free
ourselves from the emotional baggage that make us create these
non-serving thoughts about ourselves. Because that is indeed what
they are.
Many human beings are like
living inside bubbles of conviction of not being worthy, feeling
guilty, not being good enough, feeling small and insignificant.
These ways of thinking have occurred through the chakra system that
has created our limited nature for thousands of years.
Our experiences as a species has caused us to feel guilt and shame
and a lot of other feelings and made us hold on to it. It has made
us cling to things that have happened in the past.
It is much easier to let go of
old pain and limitations now than
before. Nevertheless; we need to realize what does not serve us to
do it! That is why we still need to accept our feelings. The true nature
of our souls is love and joy... As underlined on these pages - we
cannot let go of what we deny. We need to see it and accept it -
and forgive what is needed to forgive - then it disappears!
Why
is it so difficult to love oneself?
Most of us have grown up with attitudes saying, loving oneself is
selfish. To get to our
goal, we have to understand the mechanisms that make us selfish.
Loving oneself is not selfish; it is the opposite.
Not loving ourselves, make us criticize others.
Our own subconscious baggage of painful memories create our
conviction of not deserving, that we ought to be ashamed, that we
are inferior, that we are guilty, that we are afraid… which make us
feel small and act in ways to compensate for the feeling
of being small… That is what makes us behave selfishly.
To be able to grow into our greatness, we need to recognize what
does not serve us.
By observing what happens in your lives and how you react
emotionally on those situations…
tell you what remind you of the painful episodes you are carrying
with you.
It is important to understand that people who carry negative ways of
thinking, being and acting help us see ourselves. Those who do what we perceive as negative, make us able to
choose differently! Accept
that they are where they are. Neutralize your thoughts and let go.
Don't let anybody harm you or hurt you, but say it when anybody do.
Take responsibility for your own thoughts and actions.
Accept
your own feelings and let go of them! Forgive
yourself and others!
These are going to be important rules for living in the years
to come.
